Confusion...

Today I wrote with my "not-to-be-arrival mom" (I know it sounds quite stupid, bit I don't know how to say in another way :), just read on and you will know why I wrote it that way), so she told me a while ago that they aren't hosting this year and today, that they aren't even an arrival family...
When I asked my RC for somemore information she told me that they are still my arrival family. But I'm on the IEC's priority list of students, that need an host family as soon as possible.
So in the end I'm just really confused, because I'm not at all sure about what's going on. But at least if everything goes wrong, I can go to my not-to-be-arrival family.

Hope it will get clearer when I'm leaving
Johanna